Previous installments: Part 1, Part 2, Part 3, Part 4, Part 5, Part 6, Part 7, Part 8. And check out the official Livin' Large FAQ.

Okay, before beginning this installment, I have a few things to say about Pisa, Italy. Yeah, I know it has nothing whatsoever to do with this story, but it's my blog. So there.

First off, Evil Ted and I went for a run after our grueling 11-hour workday. We jogged by the Leaning Tower of Pisa...I have to admit, that was pretty cool. Now, an interesting thing about Pisa is that everybody eats ice cream. Like, all the time. I'm talking once or twice a day. And every place you go to sells ice cream. Pharmacies, pizza places, cafes, bars, etc. And that's in addition to all the gelato (that is, ice cream) parlors that dot the landscape. Seriously, the gelato stands are to Pisa what Starbucks is to anywhere in the United States.

Our hosts explained that, in Pisa, ice cream is considered to be medicinal. That's because it's hot as balls here and there's no human way to escape the heat. The pitiful little air conditioner in my flat (that is, apartment) sits over the front door and expels enough frigid air to cool off, well, the front door. If I could sleep standing up and propped against the door, I might actually stay asleep for more than 25 minutes at a time. That and not wake up in a pool of my own sweat.

The extreme heat has apparently made sensations of "cold" or even "cool" intolerable to the Pisans. So much so that most places don't serve ice in drinks. And if you ask, you get funny looks. (But not as funny as the look Evil Ted got when he asked a barista for milk in his coffee. The dude looked at ET like he'd asked for a cow urine frapacheeny.) True story. We were having lunch with our co-workers yesterday, and one of them ordered "ice water." When it arrived, our Italian boss, Richard, grabbed it and said (in a British accent), "Dear God, it's freezing. Be careful, gents. It's so cold it might burn your mouth. I can barely touch my glass it's so cold." ET and I were actually afraid to take a drink...then discovered it was barely above room temperature.

Let's see, what else. Cars are tiny. And I mean all of 'em. Most people just walk in the middle of the tiny streets because cars tend to remain parked in favor or scooters or what look like 1950s era bicycles. Almost 80 percent of the women wear sexy sundresses, and most of the guys dress like, uh, I believe the word ET used was "dingleberries." Oh, and there are NO fat people. Seriously. It's bizarre, because in America, you can hardly turn around without stumbling into a huge, giggling belly or tripping into the fatty's wading pool of delicious gravy.

But enough about foreign lands. You're here for stories.

Okay, so I failed miserably in my attempt to get a room reassignment. I was stuck with Mat, and he was stuck with me. Things seemed tense at the time, but in retrospect they were still pretty cordial. It wouldn't stay that way, but at the time, I didn't think things could get any worse.

That didn't keep me from plotting his death.

I'm exaggerating of course. Well, mostly. I did have some rather dark and unsavory fantasies. But most of them involved him accidentally walking into a bus or slipping on a banana peel and falling directly into a wood chipper. I had to hope the fates would do him in, because I sure couldn't do it. I've always felt I could probably hold my own in most fights, but I had no illusions whatsoever about what would happen if I tangled with my roommate. Maybe I would have had a fighting chance if I was wearing a shark protection suit made out of actual sharks, or poisonous grizzly bears or something. As it was, my best instrument of revenge...was the mind.

Unfortunately, I hadn't lived with BadDave yet, so I wasn't very cunning. So I started out small. You know, accidentally-on-purpose forgetting to write down messages about important phone calls, including a few from his professors. (It seemed meaningless at the time, but trust me, it bore fruit later.) I drank his last couple sodas. I stuffed his pillow case under his bed, where I knew he would never find it among the bizarre debris field there. (Yes, he missed it, and yes it pissed him off.)

Sadly, these tiny victories brought me little joy. I took the problem to my role-playing group. One thing about these guys: they may have been geeky -- almost retardedly so -- but they were smart and devious. One in particular was a brilliant kid who was studying chemical engineering. BadDave will have to remind me what his name was, but let's call him "Four-Eyes." Four-Eyes devised several insidious plans for slowly poisoning Mat anywhere from mild illness to death. It was both frightening and rather tempting, which probably tells you how fed up I was getting.

But murder is murder, and as much as I didn't like him, he wasn't that evil. Besides, I would not do well in prison.

Midweek I received another card from Aimee's roommate, Latrisse. But she went one better than that and sent me a care package too. I was really moved. It was my first care package. Several of the guys I'd met had already gotten one from their parents, and I had been mildly bummed about not having received one myself. It made me feel kind of unloved, and I was already have that stupid freshman "I'm just a number now!" feeling.

That night I called Aimee's room, but not to talk to Aimee. I called for Latrisse. I wanted to thank her for the care package. This drove Aimee a little nuts. A few years later and I might have been crafty enough to use that to my advantage, but I was way to inexperienced and innocent to play games. But it got Aimee's attention, and she really warmed up to me that week.

Mat overheard much of my conversation. Despite his constant liaisons, he seemed fascinated by my budding love life. He always paid close attention to my discussions with Aimee, and he was monitoring the situation with Latrisse too.

"Dude," he said, "you need to be f***ing careful. Dat's some dangerous sh*t, playing up to duh girl you wanna date and her roommate. Dat sh*t will get you f***ed up if you're not careful."

I almost laughed in his giant face. This was strange advice coming from a guy who would make a booty call five minutes after finishing with his last booty call. Then again, I had to admit, he seemed to know more about woman than I did (or at least that's how it seemed to my 18-year-old self). Could he have a point?

"Nah," I said after a few moments of hard thought. "It's not like that. Latrisse and I are just really friendly. Guys and girls can be friends."

Mat then uttered perhaps the wisest thing I would ever hear him say. "Guys and girls can be a lot of t'ings, but dey cannot be friends."

Let's be frank here: Mat said and did a lot of stupid, thoughtless, cruel and incomprehensible things while we were living together. But he was almost 100 percent bang on about that. I would learn this many, many times in the coming years, as many a friendship ended in dramatic comedy. However, at that time, it was very easy to dismiss any and everything he tried to tell me.

The next night, I was hip-deep in an English paper in -- I kid you not -- gender construction in the movie Ghostbusters when the phone rang. Mat answered it, as he almost always did when he was actually in the room, expecting it to be Shelly. But, shock of shocks, it was for me.

"It's dat girl Tiffany again," he said.

"Uh...okay," I said. He handed me the phone. "Hello?"

"Hi Matt! My name's Tiffany!" one voice said.

"And I'm Carolyn!" said another.

"We're your new pledge mothers!" they said together.

"My, excuse me, what?" I was dumbfounded.

"Silly boy," Carolyn said. "Don't you remember filling out a rush form for Alpha Phi Omega."

I don't remember whether I slapped myself in the forehead right then, but I wouldn't be surprised if that was my reaction. I had forgotten all about APO probably less than five minutes after I'd filled that form out. Well, that solved the mystery of why two girls would be calling a socially awkward freshman who rarely left his dorm room.

"The pledge ceremony is this Sunday," Tiffany continued. "It's kind of like an orientation, but it's a ceremony too, so you'll want to dress nice. Dress pants and a shirt, maybe a tie if you're into that."

"You'll get to meet your fellow pledges, ask questions, all that stuff," Carolyn said. "Oh, I almost forgot. You have a pledge sister. Her name's Susan."

It's funny, but even that small handful of information left me a little dumbstruck. I wrote it all down on a notepad and just sort of stared at it.

"If you have any questions before Sunday, or if you want to meet us before hand, maybe get something to eat, don't hesitate to call us," Tiffany said. "In fact, we'd love to have lunch with you. Do you have any free time in the next couple days?"

"Uh, I'm kinda busy this week," I said, palms sweating. "I probably won't have any time until Sunday." What a laugh. I had nothing BUT time at that point in my college life. But the idea of meeting two strange girls for lunch intimidated me.

We agreed to meet at the student center on Sunday at 12:45 p.m. The ceremony was at one.

"So," Mat said with some interest, "what was all dat about?"

I explained it too him and he immediately lost interest. To him, it was probably just another geeky thing his dweeb roommate was doing.

The week passed as weeks tend to do. I was delighted when Mat disappeared on Friday. He had that "two-day disappearance" look about him, and I was almost right. He didn't return until really late on Saturday night, maybe around 4 a.m., when he showed up drunk and alone. He was so beat he actually dropped right into bed without turning on his Heineken light or watching a single minute of MTV. I passed the time playing pick-up ball at the co-rec, hanging out with Nathan, and meeting up with the roleplaying group on Saturday night.

On Sunday I got dressed up, Little Matt style. Unfortunately, I'm trapped in Italy thousands of miles away from my scrapbook, or I'd post a picture of me and my pledge family. Anyway, I wore black dress pants, a dark purple dress shirt and a thin black tie. I thought I looked pretty pimpin'. I mean, I was no Wally "Eskimo Pimp" Szczerbiak or anything, but I was stylin' for me at the time.

I met up with my pledge moms in the designated place at the designated time, and while I was genuinely happy to meet them, I couldn't take my eyes of my pledge sister. I thought she was adorable. I also thought she was hot. Susan was short, a little busty, with not-quite shoulder-length brown hair and twinkling brown eyes. She also had a nose like Jennifer Grey, which kinda did it for me. (Remember, I had just had my first serious kiss the previous weekend after watching Dirty Dancing.) She decked out in a very flattering lavender dress and wearing a black choker with a white porcelain cross affixed to it.

I stuck out my hand to shake and blurted out, "HellonicetomeetyouareyouCatholic?"

Hello mouth, I am the foot. Allow me to insert myself.

Susan looked at me like a third eye had just popped out of my forehead. "Uh, yeah, I am Catholic. Why do you ask?"

"Oh, uh, well, you're wearing that cross and everything."

"Yeah. I just think it's cool."

"Oh, yeah, yeah sure, it is. Like, very cool. I really like it."

As awkward as that little exchange may seem on your computer screen, I promise you it was ten times more awkward than that. At least. It was a stumbling, bumbling first impression. And it set a precedent: I would continue to be painfully and sometimes hilariously awkward in Susan's presence.

I sat through the pledging ceremony in a daze. I was really smitten with Susan. Every few seconds I'd sneak a quick peek at her. I guess someone must have slipped some infatuation juice into my cereal that morning.

After the ceremony, our little pledge family went out for lunch at a popular pizza place right off campus. My awkwardness continued unabated, but I managed to sort of contain it. During the discussion, Tiffany explained why she and Carolyn had chosen me as their pledge son. "Well," Tiffany said, "I saw you put down soccer as one of your hobbies. I was really excited about that, because I played soccer for, like, seven years. Most guys put down football or basketball. When I saw soccer on your pledge form, I knew I had to pick you."

It's really funny how things turn out. Some crazy whim had taken over my mind that day and caused me to put down soccer instead of basketball. I never quite understood how or why that happened, considering my obsession with watching and playing basketball. But some strange twist of fate had moved my pen, and so I ended up meeting Susan, who would become the second love of my college life.

Of course, I'd blown the first impression. But I'd get other chances.

When I got back to the room, Mat was still out like a light. I had nervous energy to burn off, so I changed into workout gear and went for a run. When I came back, I heard Mat singing in the shower across the hall from our room. Bob Marley of course. When he wasn't watching MTV, Mat was either listening to or singing Bob Marley. Or both. I reached for the doorknob and found it was unlocked.

Now let me explain something. The whole door locking thing was a real hangup for me. Things were a little rough in my neighborhood while I was growing up. Rough enough that my mom repeatedly stressed the importance of locking your door. On top of that, school officials, members of the dorm government, writers in the school paper, everybody was issuing dire warnings for students to lock up, even if they were just going down the hall to talk to a friend. I took this advice to heart, and I wanted Mat to do it too...but that was like asking Lindsey Lohan to lay off the magic sauce.

Finding the door unlocked yet again made me snap. It wasn't just the door locking thing, it was all of Mat's shenanigans. I just wanted to get him, really embarrass him, just once.

I locked the door and left the dorm.

An hour later, I returned. The door was locked. I let myself in and the room was empty. However, there was a note on my desk. I still have this note somewhere, and I swear if I find it I will scan it and post it here on the site. Anyway, it was from Mat, and it said, "You locked me out of the room. I'm going to fucking kill you."

Okay, I'll admit: I was terrified. But I also got this totally wild thrill. Oh, and it gets better. By the time Mat got home, he had calmed down a little bit. He still wanted to kick my ass, but not badly enough to actually do it. This is what happened. Mat came out of the shower to find the door locked, of course, and he didn't have his key. He was forced to go down to the main office, which is in a large common room area.

There was some kind of event going on -- to this day, I don't know exactly what it was -- but the common room was filled with students and their families: dads, moms, brothers and sisters. Even some grandparents. And here comes this lumbering giant, soaking wet and wearing a teeny-tiny towel that barely fit halfway around his massive trunk. If you want to know how small that towel was on him, go get a hand towel from your bathroom, fold it in half, and then try to wrap it around your waist. Yeah.

Mat walked up to the front desk, which was manned by a student worker. He explained that he was locked out of his room and requested a spare key. The student worker, citing protocol, said Mat would have to produce his dorm ID before he could get a spare key. Mat not-so-calmly explained he didn't have his key. The student worker insisted. People started gathering around, fascinated by this freakish standoff.

Now, I had believed to that point that Mat had no shame. But apparently he did, and this situation evoked it. He was embarrassed, humiliated, so he began screaming at the student worker. The student worker got scared and supposedly threatened to call the police. Finally, the hall assistant manager showed up and gave Mat the spare key, after which he shambled, still mostly naked, past dozens of staring eyes back to our room.

He was still steamed about it...still embarrassed even. I apologized without meaning it. Then we kind of laughed about it together. Oddly enough, it felt like one of those moments when roommates bond a little. But it was just an illusion.

Part 10

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Anonymous bizarro said...
this is like a movie. and now comes Susan! talk about cliffhanger.

Blogger Antonin & Damia said...
Coffee with milk is called caffe latte (freddo if you want it cold). I'm sure I ordered one when I visited in May.

Anonymous bizarro said...
totally unrelated but this is weird:
did you know about it?

Anonymous Matt said...
Matt I am sure this is an unintended consequence, but some of your stories have replenished my spank bank. I usually read this just before I go to bed and it has definitely sent the member slightly Northward on more than one occasion.

I hope this doesn't make it awkward.

Anonymous dunkside said...
welcome to europe :)

first, if pisa is hot, don't go to southern italy. stay away from napoli or, even worse, palermo (sicily).

second, those small cars you're seeing are what could have saved the american auto-makers from bankruptcy. plus those big ass american cars would not even fit in the small streets of some cities in europe.

third (and most important) if you want to make it alive from there, don't EVER put ketchup on your pizza (or even ask for ketchup).

have fun and enjoy italy.

PS: will you stay in pisa, or move around ? if you're around milano in late august, i'd like to see what you got on a basketball court :)

Anonymous Anonymous said...
lol funny how americans complain about the air conditoning and warm drinks in europe.

when i was in america i caught a cold in freakin deatch valley, because every room had like 15 different air conditioners.

and if you ordered a drink you got 1/2 of frozen water and 1/2 of what you actually wanted to drink

whatever, love your site

Blogger RuffnReady said...
I'm absolutely loving "Living large" - it's honest, interesting, funny and sad, often all at the same time. It's not often that you get to read such a candid account of someone so massively unaware of his effect on the world as Mat.

Thanks for telling the tale.

Blogger Japes said...
Even though it wasn't well thought out, the result of locking that door was some awesome revenge. He is human after all...

Anonymous Anonymous said...
Matt - that does indeed make it awkward. But I respect it all the same.

Bawful - Four-eyes was Brad. Oy, oy, oy! For the record, while he was geeky, he was also completely ripped. I'm 85% sure that he was on steriods. Brad was also the dude that saved $1 million per year for Hoffman LaRoche (now Roche) by finding uses for some of their waste chemicals. I'm sure he's ridiculously rich, and titled "Dr. Science."

Blogger Nick Flynt said...
Catsup on pizza? Crazy.

Nice work as always. I don't even have any thoughts to share, other than the fact that I got a little Ricky Gervais-Office kind of image. But Italian, so he looked like he was from New Jersey (gold chain, A.K.A.)

Blogger Nick said...
dunkside is right, never ask for ketchup, but not because its uncouth (even though it is). ketchup here is putrid. think of like a deep red mixture of molasses and vinegar thats been left out for several days. at least they make up for it by having awesome names like Mato Mato Squiz.

Blogger AnacondaHL said...
Damn Bawful, you're posting these really late at night, Italy time.

Anyways, I loved this. The story is coming together like, a, well aged steak, or something. Or rather, is reaching One Piece levels of epicness in terms of something from the past having importance and relevance to the present and future.

Every word of advice from Mat so far has 100% of my approval, and wish I was told the same things when I was entering college.

Anonymous Anonymous said...
what college did matt go to??

Blogger Unknown said...
Ahhhh! That interaction with Susan was painful. Probably only because I was similarly awkward as a college freshman, so I could really feel for you. That's what I really love about your stories - I can totally relate to your freshman year character. In general, this whole thing is like reading a Tucker Max story from an outsider's perspective. And since I'll never be Tucker Max, I find that concept much more personally interesting.

Anyway, on the whole, I sometimes tire of your basketbawful schtick. There have been many times that I think you've gone out of your way to unnecessarily find bawful in an otherwise good game. But, for the most part, I do enjoy the regular entries. This story, however, is on a whole different level. It's incredibly entertaining and well put together. It has transformed me from a once a week basketbawful reader, to a daily reader for life. I'm also definitely going to check out your Bulls blog, and I'm sure if it's even remotely as entertaining as this I'll read it all the time too.

Thank you for providing us all with several hours of great entertainment.

Blogger Will said...
"It's so cold it might burn your mouth." What kind of twisted British logic is that?

Anonymous Marc said...
First time in Europe I take it?

Ketchup is disgusting anywhere you go. I wouldn't even put that shit on a naked Scarlett Johannson.

Also, I'm not sure if this is the same in Italy, but everyone ate pizza with a knife and fork in France and Germany. Learned that lesson the hard way.

Blogger Cortez said...
"Matt I am sure this is an unintended consequence, but some of your stories have replenished my spank bank."

Jesus H. Christ!

Blogger Wally Xie said...
The whole meeting Susan thing reminded me of how I completely flubbed asking out a girl yesterday by spouting the most random and ridiculous nonsense possible instead of saying the simple "Are you available Friday night?" I had originally planned. Dammit. Freshmen (though technically I'm a rising sophomore now) awkwardness fucking sucks.

Anonymous JustinS said...
Curious... about how far into the school year do you think you were at this point?

Blogger Yiping said...
"Ketchup is disgusting anywhere you go. I wouldn't even put that shit on a naked Scarlett Johannson."

This is a lie. Any self-respecting male would put ANYTHING on Scarlett Johannson.

Blogger AnacondaHL said...
commnter Matt: Oh yea, Basketbawful cured my ED too.

This is glory of the Internet age we live in at its best.

Blogger Will said...
I second Cortez. If this were a Bill Simmons mailbag, he would respond with a "Yup, these are my readers."

Anonymous dunkside said...
@yiping - i'd personally put jessica alba on scarlett johansson.

and i'd eat that with my hands and mouth as opposed to fork and knife.

"Any self-respecting male would put ANYTHING on Scarlett Johannson."
I wanna say something about that, but will respect the young people reading.

Matt, at least you knew you were awkward. I used to think I was the coolest guy on this here earth. Imagine how that went...

Anonymous Anonymous said...
For what it's worth, outside of the extreme heat, most of what you've said about Pisa applies to other parts of Europe.

In particular, the women in Europe actually seem to care about the clothing they're seen in, (beyond when they are on a date or hitting the clubs).

The cars tend to be small because the roads tend to be small.. (and also because, on larger streets, it's not uncommon to have cars triple parked).

Finally, having grown up in Madrid, (despite being American), I can honestly say I don't understand why someone would fill their glass with ice, both lessening the amount of soda in that glass and diluting it once the ice starts melting. Just make sure the coke is cold -before- you pour it.

Anonymous Anonymous said...
yea I find the quietest and smartest are usually the most evil and cunning people in the world.

BUT they have to break the quiestest part at some point or they'll end up being crazy geniuses LOL

Blogger AnacondaHL said...
Another sad moment lost due to the death of Footbawful: T.O.'s reality TV show promoted by HIS NAKED BODY. I'd provide a link, but you know being at work and all.

Blogger Unknown said...
Ok I have to ask is Latrese black? Are there white girls named Latrese?

Blogger Victor said...
I think you need to dedicate a post to Italy. How's the food? And the women? And how exactly are you in Italy for work when you just write boring technical software manuals that everyone immediately throws out?

Blogger J Tallent said...
the "guys and girls can't be friends" bit reminded of of When Harry Met Sally.

Anonymous JoeH said...
Given your timidity at that time, you must have been pretty fed up with Mat's shenanigans to pull the lock-the-roommate-out-of-your-room-while-he's-in-the-shower trick on him. You should be proud of your frosh self for having the courage to do so.

And completely off topic, but very much bawful worthy, Antoine Walker has been charged with writing $800K+ of bad checks here in Vegas - I also can't believe he's only 32! Given how washed up he is, I assumed he was at least in his late 30s.

Blogger AK Dave said...
Dear Matt:

I am amazed by your resolve and persistence in keeping this blog going while overseas. It's no secret that I read this every day and feel somewhat lost and empty when I don't get a nice fat blog post to read when I find a moment at work. I also like the discussion of differences between Europe and USA and the comments it brings about. Personally I'm anti-ice-in-the-beverage and pro-carbonated water. And we all need to drive smaller cars.

With that in mind: make sure you get out and hit a few bars/clubs over there (and by that I mean: meet girls and get laid- you are single, right? Don't answer that.). I'd hate to think that you felt obligated to your readers to a point where it prevented you from going out and having cool Europe-adventures that will fuel even more cool posts in the future!

As sad as we all would be to miss an installment, we would all be better off for it in the long run if it meant you sharing some awesome story that ended with 3 girls on the top of the leaning tower taking pepto-bismol baths with midgets on unicycles. Or schooling a bunch of Italian pick-up ballers and making off with their girlfriends and being chased all over Pisa by angry Italians with knives and tight-fitting-jeans, only to stumble across a robot that contains the plans for a space station with the power to destroy a planet. According to BadDave; this is not outside the realm of possibilities. On behalf of all of us stateside who never got to travel to Europe on the company nickel, please make this a reality. Help us, Matt McHale- you're our only hope.

Thank you.


Anonymous Anonymous said...
AK Dave - It's not possible. It's probable with Bawful's luck. Actually, you've missed out how his bad luck would have smacked him on these hijinks. Please resubmit for evaluation.

Blogger eileen said...
I already have a movie version of these tales forming in my head. In his first big-screen apperance, Dirk Nowitzki stars as Mat, Scarlett Johansson is a lock for Shelly, and Chloe Sevigny would make a perfect Taco Bell Jennifer (even though all three are a little old to be cast as college students). As for our protagonist Matt... Michael Cera?

Also, in NBA gossip, Richard Jefferson jilted his bride at the altar

Blogger Andrei said...
Locking out your roommate is a classic. I was both on the receiving end of it and the lock-out-dishing side of it. I'm pretty sure me getting locked out was an accident, but I did it on purpose to my 2nd roommate, the guy was a total D-bag. Come to think of it, the guy I locked out received for being too nerdy. That's saying something, since I played nothing but RPGs in college. This dude used to yell at me for not doing my homework and he never drank.

Blogger chris said...
BadDave: I think the only Bawful's trip could reach the stratosphere of Lovetron is an accidental meeting up with his ex-roomie along the way.

OR, somehow happening upon a caged octagon in the process, thus leading to an unintended and hillarious reunion.

eileen - If Ali MacGraw could be a "college student" for Love Story at 32 years old...I think your casting is just fine.

Blogger Unknown said...
The whole time I've been reading this series, it continues to dawn on me how embarrassing it'd be if I tried to do the same about my school experience with future successful pro-athletes/famous folk, such as:

-Getting to sit on the bench and sub in for Mike Bibby whenever he felt the game was well in hand and I wouldn't be able to mess up any chance for victory.

-The many times I got trucked by Shaun MacDonald (ASU standout WR and now playing for the Steelers) in practice like Bo Jackson over the Boz.

-Getting shot down by the chick that would wind up being in Grandma's Boy as the "titty suck" woman that Jonah Hill was with.

-Having Misty Hyman (future Gold Medalist in swimming at the 2k Olympics) laugh in my face when I got caught trying to cheat off her in Pre-Calc and wound up with an F on the test.

-Thowing up on Ashley Roberts (future Pussycat Doll) by accident when she got in my way as I was making a mad dash to the bathroom in the middle of a party.

That's just the tip of the iceburg.

Blogger AK Dave said...
BadDave: *sigh* OK, here goes:

As sad as we all would be to miss an installment, we would all be better off for it in the long run if it meant you sharing some awesome story that ended with 3 girls on the top of the leaning tower taking pepto-bismol baths with midgets on unicycles, only to have the pepto, when combined with the unfamiliar diet of ice cream and pasta, set off an allergic reaction that caused a nasty (but harmless) rash to form on your man-region, making you too nervous to remove your underpants and get in on the action.

Or schooling a bunch of Italian pick-up ballers and making off with their girlfriends and being chased all over Pisa by angry Italians with knives and tight-fitting-jeans, only to discover that one of them is a Euro-serial-killer wanted in 8 countries, and the "girls" aren't exactly as "female" as you had originally perceived.

Or how you accidentally stumbled your way into a strip club only to be the 1,000,000th customer meaning you got pulled on-stage and boobs thrown in your face for an hour straight- on "Mature Plus-Sized Ladies" night. (/shudder).

How's that?

Anonymous Anonymous said...
Yup. That's pretty much it.

Next brew's on me.

Blogger Nick Flynt said...
Nice work on that one Alaska boy.

I'm so jealous of all the comment production from Chris and AK Dave. I can relate, but I prefer to pretend that I can't.

Anonymous Anonymous said...
wild, once you figure out who Mat is and looking at the FAQ, you can find him on Youtube.

Anonymous Anonymous said...
Matt these stories are great. Thank you for sharing them with the public.

I shared many of your Freshman experiences, I roomed with a scholarship baller as well. He had copious amounts of sex, long conversations on the phone with his high school sweetheart. He quickly found out I was gay (he saw a picture of me and the BF) and promptly stopped speaking to me. The rest of year he pretended I didn't exist this included entering the bathroom while i was on the shitter and proceeding to shave and brush his teeth while I was inches away naked on the toilet, this happened regularly. Really what I hated most was the fact that my roommate would keep food under his bed like hamburgers, slices of pizza, patty melts, tacos, etc. Sometimes they would sit under there and rot for days until he would eventually eat them. The dude never got sick but our room constantly smelled like rancid meat.

I requested a room change many times and had a similar experience to yours with Chad where I was told there was no room, and that these athletes blah blah blah special people blah blah blah. And put up with it for the entire year.

My favorite part about being his roommate was the hilarity of hosting recruits. The team would always get them as fucked up as possible. One kid I remember giving the guys a fright when he, tripping, took off in nothing but his shoes and socks after a cat while screaming "I'm gonna get you kitty" the kid ran straight off campus with half the team following . The guys apparently ran him down a block off campus. the team center carried the kicking naked recruit back to the party.

Oh man I love your stories, keep up the good work. It is nice to know someone had it worse than me.

Anonymous Anonymous said...
Every time I check for the next Livin' Large episode but it's not up yet, I die a little.

Anonymous Anonymous said...
great storytelling as always. one thing really bothers me... i know you explained this already, but i can't believe you can remember these details so vividly. are you really not making ANY of this stuff up?

Blogger chris said...
When the multi-million dollar motion picture version of "Livin' Large" comes out, I can't wait to try the resulting tie-in video game special.

Rush released just like ET for the Atari!11!1!

I realize it's the summer, but it needs to be noted, at least in this comment section, that Ian Mahinmi of the Spurs had a triple double yesterday in the Vegas Summer League: 12 points, 16 boards, 10 FOULS.

NY Daily News. "None other than Garden chairman James Dolan was on hand to see one of his biggest investments, Eddy Curry(notes), prove that he is ready to resurrect his career. And here's the show Curry gave his boss: He forgot to bring his sneakers." Awesome.

jajaja I cant stop laughing

Anonymous Dan B. said...
As always, reading these Livin' Large updates is the highlight of my day. I just got back from my second long roadtrip in two weeks (long story, but for the record, driving round-trip through Kentucky, Indiana, Illinois, Missouri, Kansas, and Colorado twice in two weeks sucks), so I was fortunate enough to read two updates AND the FAQ all in a row. It almost made up for having to wait to see those updates.

I heard about Antoine Walker's failed gambling exploits while driving this morning, going on roughly one hour of sleep in the past 36 hours, which somehow made it even more knee-slapping hilarious than I would have expected. Oh, silly NBA players with your crazy anticts, how I love thee.

Anonymous Anonymous said...
"Livin' Large: Shut Up and Swallow: Gaiden". I can't wait..

Blogger Fishy said...
Thanks for the continued entertainment Bawful 8)

And I know what you mean about no overweight people in Italy.. I went to Germany a year ago and I think I saw only 2 fat people, but they were both American tourists.

Blogger The Cruise said...
One time in college I was in the dining hall and there was this idiot freshman wearing his High School letter jacket from Long Island. It wasn't cold enough to need it, and hell, we were in college. People that pimp out their 3 year varsity patches while in college are morons. This guy had his back to me, and I was with friends so I just laid into him heckling him unmercifully. Dude never turned around, but eventually got up from his meal early and walked out with his head down.

2 days later he made his college debut for Miami U, and went perfect from the field, 9-9, and had 25 points.

I feel responsible for embarrassing Wally Szczerbiak into the player that he is today.

Anonymous Shrugz said...
I must meet u all in real life LOL
so much to learn so much to learn

Anonymous Anonymous said...
I just wanted to add how awesome these essays are.

It's such a great coming-of-age/fish-out-of-water story. You're doing a great job making the story about Matt, as opposed to about Mat. It makes for a great contrast.

This is very screen-play worthy.

Blogger Preveen said...
Interesting. The last time I was in NYC/Jersey City, ppl were hot an bothered wandering wearing very little while I was considering a sweater. And I'm considered a cold freak in my country! I really would love to see you come play pick up ball here dude, you'd be gasping for air in two minutes flat!

Anonymous Steve from Upland, IN said...
Matt - Hey, I just caught on to your blog today and absolutely love it. I figured out your mystery roommate as soon as you mentioned the Karate. I grew up about 25 minutes from Kokomo am around your age and followed the university's b-ball team - especially in the era you are covering. That Duke game nearly killed me but the game against Kansas... simply amazing!!! So, here is my question, it was once rumored that your giant roomie could jump up and easily kick the backboard on a regulation hoop. Can you verify this as fact or fiction? Thanks for making my day a little brighter while on my vacation. Cheers!

Anonymous Adrià said...
Just wanted to say:

(from your text)
"Let's see, what else. Cars are tiny. And I mean all of 'em. Most people just walk in the middle of the tiny streets because cars tend to remain parked in favor or scooters or what look like 1950s era bicycles. Almost 80 percent of the women wear sexy sundresses, and most of the guys dress like, uh, I believe the word ET used was "dingleberries." Oh, and there are NO fat people. Seriously. It's bizarre, because in America, you can hardly turn around without stumbling into a huge, giggling belly or tripping into the fatty's wading pool of delicious gravy."

I went to Canada (just some says) and in Toronto, I realized about the contrary of all that stuff:

Fat people, big cars and streets, etc etc...

I'm the reader from Barcelona, it's not Italy, but we share a great part of history and culture.

Anonymous Adrià said...
Great story about E. Curry too, Giorgio Simone :D :D

Anonymous Anonymous said...
I was at the same University several years earlier. My roommate from hell was a stoner whose only interest was getting and staying high. The situation was made worse by his stoner buddy who constantly hung out in our room. His two interests were getting high and tormenting me. The tormenter was a former high school wrestler who passed himself off as a bad ass. It is clear with hindsight to see the kid had a real self esteem issue.

At the time, I was much like the freshman little Matt. In spite of being 6-1 and 190 pounds I was timid and let the incessant abuse continued until one night late in the semester he pushed it to far. I blew up and told him I had had enough. He asked if I wanted to step outside and do something about it. I answered in the affirmative and the three of us went to the grassy area between two of the dorms where a student food service building now stands.

I had the first and only real fight of my life. Thank God my roommate was at least honorable enough not to get involved. At the conclusion Mr. Antagonizer dusted himself off and walked away. I never saw him again. At the semester break, I requested and received a transfer to another dorm.

The lessons learned from the first semester served me well for the rest of my college career and life after school.

1.) Act with confidence
2.) Stoners who do not go to class do not get degrees. My old roommate and his buddy both flunked out.
3.) 160 pound wrestlers might be tough but they are no match for a 190 pound pissed off formerly timid but now tough as a boilermaker guy.

If I were in little Matt’s situation I certainly would not have accepted an invite to step outside. Big Mat really sucked at hoops but as I learned my encounter, size is a great advantage in a street fight.

Little Matt must have been a pretty good player. Games at the co-rec are very competitive. A lot of the players there are former high school stars. Many of them could have played at smaller Universities but decided to leave organized basketball in favor of attending a big school. My jock was left on the floor there on several occasions.

Blogger chris said...
So far, Matt, we've seen you introduced to:


You have also mentioned your roomie's two notables, Shelly and Taco Bell Jennifer.

So which of those...

...had the most intriguing personality? ;)

Or did all the personalities you truly encountered come about during Fifth Year?

Blogger DocZeus said...
How did you not know that Latrisse was into you? A "thinking of you" card and a care package from your sort-of-girlfriend's roommate? Dude. That's a neon flashing signal in Time Square obvious.

Anonymous Anonymous said...
Your stories are fantastic. I graduated from your university too (1980) and could never figure out why he sucked sooooo bad and never improved. Now it makes some sense. Keep the stories coming!

Blogger chris said...
DocZeus: Yeah, I've been thinking that too. Guess you better add her to that aforementioned list I put down in that question I asked Matholomew, "who had the most intriguing personality."


Anonymous clyde said...
did you get her or was she your 'love' that didn't give it up?

Anonymous Ginger said...
What's a pledge mother? What does a pledge mother do?

Anonymous siukong said...
So did the soccer lie ever come back to bite you in the ass? Or were you able to brush it all off with extreme Susan-awkwardness ...